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The Family Online Safety Institute
I just thought about you when I came across this article from the Family Online Safety Institute's 2009 Annual Conference in Washington D.C. The theme this year was "Building a Culture of Responsibility: From Online Safety to Digital Citizenship".
And now I see that your Marian attended the same event from her blog.
I see everyone pretty much has the same message: To talk to our kids and come to an understanding together. Not to lead by fear and create a dictatorship.