Cant get Vista start up to config to "normal"

I had booted into safe mode ok, but cant get back to normal mode

Problems getting start up to remain in Normal mode

Vista 32 bit home premium with vista service pack 2 on HP desk top

 

Here is what I do

Go msconfig

general tab set to normal. 

click apply

click ok

when I boot up it comes up in safe mode

 

So I read that I need to

open msconfig

under general tab click normal clcik apply

then go to boot tab and unclick safe boot, clcik apply

 

But when I do that if I go back to general tab, it shows not normal start up but selective start up with all the boxes checked

(load system services, load start up items, and load original boot configuration all checked)

 

so How do I make it stay as Normal start up? don't click back on genarla tab after unclicking safe boot?

is selective start up with all the boxes checked just basically teh same as normal start up?

 

also is normal start  and selective start pretty much the same if you have all the boxes checked in selective start?

how can you tell when you start up and log on if you are in selective start up or normal start up? ( I know safe mode looks very different)