email notification

I have installed Norton Familyon my children's laptop running Windows 7.   I have set the e-mail notifications for all children for the specific categories and have it set up so both my wife and I are to receive notifications on our email addresses.  However, after conducting several tests, I have found that the neither my wife or I am receiving notifications.  I have checked my spam filters and junk mail; the messages are not getting caught there.  Any suggestions?