nis 2010 and spysweeper-how do I fix this?

I began to notice that NIS 2010 and Spysweeper 6 have a conflict when sometimes the nis icon would not show in my windows xp taskbar. I have to restart my system 3 or 4 times in order for both the nis icon and spysweeper icon to show in the taskbar.

 

I started reading up on this and now I see that nis and spysweeper have a conflict and that the realtime component of spysweeper should be turned off. How do I do this? I'm not very good with computers and this protection software conflict stuff is very new to me.

 

Please help.

 

I'm running windows xp.