Norton 2011 Spam File

A friend and I "talk" to each other three or more times a week.  In the past three weeks, his messages have dwindled and I've just discovered that they are being shuffled into my Spam files.  He's obviously in my address book.  A few of his messages to me have been returned.

 

How do I correct the situation so that all his messages come into my in-box? 

 

 

 

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