Hi gdfarkas,
System Extensions became mandatory with macOS 11. macOS 10.14 was when Apple started showing notifications of legacy extensions. But it could be that on your system, Norton still uses kernel extensions. I'm not familiar with how Norton handles their extensions, sorry. The equivalent would be com.symantec.internetSecurity.kext.
For Kernel Extensions, the location where most are found is: /System/Library/Extensions
For System Extensions it is: /Library/System Extensions
Another way to find out what extensions are present, including those by Symantec/Norton, would be to use Terminal which you can either search via Spotlight or find in Applications\Utilities
To list all Kernel extensions (excluding those from Apple) enter: kextstat | grep -v com.apple
To list all System extensions enter: systemextensionsctl list
If you want to check if the Safari extension is installed, open Safari, click on the menu bar on Safari > Preferences... Then a window opens. In the top row click on Extensions. Then you'll see all installed extensions. If you see Norton there, but it is not activated with a checkmark before the extension, do that.
If Norton isn't there, then open Norton 360 and click on Settings which is top right in the bright part of the window, just below the dark colored accent stripe at the top. Then click on Safe Web and then the arrow next to Safari which should bring you to the download page of the extension.
In case the extension is said to be installed, but not visible in the Browser UI or in the Extension Menu of Safari preferences, you can try to rebuild macOS launch services. This should usually not be necessary, but I don't know the conditions of your inherited Mac and I'd rather give one tool too many than too few.
For that open Terminal. Close Safari and enter in the Terminal window following command (with best thanks to kaitlyn from 1Password):
/System/Library/Frameworks/CoreServices.framework/Frameworks/LaunchServices.framework/Support/lsregister -f -R /Applications/Safari.app
As said: It should not be necessary, but it could help if Safari has trouble recognizing and displaying the extension.
Best,
Crwmy