Text Supervision & Notifying Friends

Long story short, a history of infidelity problems and the desire of reconciliation has lead my wife to giving me access to all her browsing, calling, texting, etc. And because we have Android devices, I purchased this product.

So starting with a more simple question:

It states: "Norton Family sends a monthly reminder to your child and their friend that SMS is being monitored."

Does that still apply to friends I set as "unmonitored"? If it's a friend of hers I know and there's nothing suspicious about it, I don't need to monitor it and I'd rather them not get a monthly reminder that my wife cheated on me. Especially if I'm not actually prying into their conversations.