When I run NIS and use my CD DVD with any CD or DVD XP Crashes

In Sept. 2011 I upgraded my motherboard, not long after that when I would use my CD/DVDrw XP would go unstable and then crash. as of a week ago I replace motherboard again this time with a new CPU, I still have the same problem. XP crashes when I use the optical drive. Other things I did and or replaced with no change are:

 

1. Ram three times third time different brand.

2. New optical drive

3. Video card new also tried onboard video.

4. Removed audio card

5. Another new motherboard and prop. Slot 1155 core i3

6, new power supply 600 w

7. New cables for optical drive.

8. Removed add on IO card

 

along with other things and XP still crashes when I use the optical drive (WHEN I HAVE NIS enabled)

 

When I disable NIS the problem goes away and I can't crash the OS

 

I can not find a fix for this problem.

 

help! and thanks.