Cookies not accepted by IE browser Win8 -coincidentally around Java fix was installd

My browser is rejecting cookies - I have adjusted the IE browser in Win8 (Tools/Internet Optioons/Safety area so many times my head is spinning -- it appears to be perfectly setup but no matter what I do when I go to sites I have been going to for years I get stopped now cuz my browser isn't acepting cookies. I have the safety area set to Medium and to Low and have even set it up to accept any/all cookies andstill  the cookies are rejected .  What do I still need to look at? Completely stumped. Your assistance is appreciated . It seems this all cvame about coincidentally around the time I also installed the Java fix.

PS I also set up that area under safety/Advanced and checked the OVerride Automatic Cookie Handlling and have checked the ACCEPT boxes as well as the check mark in the ALWAYS ALLOW SESSION COOKIES -- just don't know what I am missing