OK right here goes i have ports open for a game but i think Norton is blocking the pots when i did a can you see me it saying connection refused , so if i need Norton to stop blocking some ports what things need to be on and off in the fire wall, or as Norton got a thing to say Please don't block this port ????
One way to check if it is Norton's firewall causing your issue is to temporarily disable it and test. Right click on the Norton icon in the System Tray and click on Disable Smart Firewall. Then choose a time frame and test your connection again. If you are still getting blocked, it is not Norton's firewall causing the issue.