We recently set up Norton Online Family with our Norton Internet Security along with NetNanny. We are having issues with Online Family not recording Instant Message activity, I've made sure that NetNanny isn't recording IM to avoid possible conflict and made sure that all settings are turned on in Norton Online Family.
I also tested to make sure that blocking IM's works and this just resulted in losing Internet Connectivity. Better yet more specifically launching Internet Explorer would result in it freezing up, to undo this I had to log in from my smart phone and change the setting from blocked to monitored to solve the connectivity problem.
Here are the following version numbers for AIM, NetNanny, Norton Security/Online Family and System Information.
AIM 6.9.17.2
NetNanny 6.0.0.201
Norton Security 17.1.0.19
--Norton Online Family --
Minder 1.2.0.39
Framework 1.2.0.53
Datastore 1.2.0.53
Windows 7 Home Premium N (MSDN)
2 GB Memory
Intel Core 2 Duo E8400 @ 3.00GHz